How do I look fashionably pale (like Nicole Kidman) and not scary white?

I'm going to LA for business in January and will be surrounded by the top people in fashion and the entertainment industry. I'm naturally pale, but I've never really known how to pull it off. I don't want to look like some midwest girl who's coming to LA. Tanning isn't really an option for me since I just burn instead. Any ideas of how I can make my pale skin look beautiful instead of blinding? Thanks!

How do I look fashionably pale (like Nicole Kidman) and not scary white?
i think make up wise you should use browns and gold for eyeshadows and bold light colors like lime green. if you use dark colors like black that will make you look'scary'. and for lips a lovly dark pink or light red would lok gud aswell as a nude color with a lipliner :D and clothes wise use colors that are darker than your skin colour but not too dark like purple and blue. o ye for suits and formal wear creams, and browns go well. you could wear black but use a interesting coloured blouse. :D
Reply:You could use a little bit of baby powder
Reply:if you have blonde hair, go for something darker...like a light brown or something..and great eye makeup always helps
Reply:Fashionably pale? Are you kidding me? Welcome to America everybody, where we follow celeberties who are no more important than the average joe, the most materialistic place on Earth. There is this thing called a 'spray-on tan' BTW.
Reply:baby pink blush. you'll look sweet and rosy. trust me on this one